There is a big fat line between “spying” (as the timid parents call it) and being responsible… and then another fat line between doing something and doing nothing at all. Parental responsibilities have adjusted in the 21st century. We have to parent accordingly. From the predators TRYING to get to your kids, to cyberbullying (victim of or perpetrator) to downloading illegal music and movies to numerous social network profiles of which you know nothing about… there’s just too much to leave it to the fates and not be monitoring. You don’t have to watch like a hawk… but you have to know.