Grandpa Hires Hitman So He Can Visit Granddaughter

Posted by JeanneSager at 10:45 AM on January 15, 2009

How can you say no to a Grandpa who just wants to see his little granddaughter? When he’s the type of guy who’d hire a hitman to rough you up for it, I’d say you have some pretty good grounds.

David Ward of Pacific, Missouri, has been accused of hiring a hitman to beat up his daughter, providing him with the woman’s address and pictures so he could identify her in a crowd.

Ward told police he didn’t want his daughter dead. He just wanted to see his granddaughter. Police say Ward was charged four years ago for assaulting the daughter – likely the reason she severed ties between child and Grandpa.

The details out on this story make it pretty clear Ward’s daughter made the right move in cutting Dad out of the picture. But most of us have parents who drive us up the wall (and don’t hire hitmen) – have you ever considered cutting them out of your child’s life?

They’re flesh and blood, but they’re also not parents, so they don’t have the rights that we do. Still, I watch my daughter running around with her grandparents, and she is absolutely idolized. Grandparents usually offer a different kind of love – because they don’t have to do the discipline and clean-up later. Grandparents often do a better job with their grandkids than they did with their own kids too, either because they’re older and more experienced or simply have the luxury of not worrying about the parenting aspect of it all.

Then again, grandparents spoil kids and send them home. They let them eat lollipops at nine p.m., and three nights later, our kids are throwing a tantrum because we say “no lollipops.” They let our kids jump on the bed even though they would have tanned our (metaphorical) hides if we’d even glanced at the bed. They tell us how to parent, and they “tut, tut” when we don’t follow up.

Sometimes, our parents aren’t the best people for us to have around. Sometimes we just suck it up for our kids (so they can grow up, have kids, and we can be the pains in the ass later).

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  • Jay says:

    FYI, it was 14 years ago that he was charged, check your facts. Also… she lived with him and his new family for a year and a half, and when they kicked her out for attacking him while HE was holding the baby because she was hopped up on crack, she refused to allow him to see her. She’s not as innocent as you are letting people believe

  • TacoBoy says:

    I thought the samethimg when I started reading this that she wasint telling the hold story,
    I have a daughter in law that dont wont me to see my 2 granddaughters because I made them move when they was dating and she never got over it.

 

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